The Four Main Trauma Responses

Recently, I shared a trauma series over on my new Instagram account (susan.shehata). I thought it would be beneficial to do an overview here, as well.

When it comes to trauma responses, most people are familiar with Fight or Flight. Some are even familiar with Freeze. But do you know about Fawn? It’s also sometimes called Friend.

It’s important to understand that these patterns show up in daily interactions—not just in extreme situations. They show up in communication, decision making, motivation, and in our breath and body. The more you understand your own trauma patterns, the better you can consciously navigate them. It’s also incredibly helpful to understand the trauma patterns of those close to you!

My invitation to you, through this, is to begin to identify your primary response pattern. From that place, supportive change can happen.

 

 

 

Fight

We each have a primary default trauma response (or a combo). The fight response occurs when we perceive that we can overcome the threat. If this has become your default response, here are some ways in which it may manifest on a daily basis. This may be in response to seemingly ordinary stimuli—relational or work issues, etc.

Oppositional defiant disorder and some types of narcissism can also be manifestations of this pattern.

 

 

 

Flight

The Flight response occurs when we perceive that the best course of action is to leave or escape the situation.

Some addictions and the hyperactive form of ADHD (whether internal or external hyperactivity) can also be manifestations of this response.

 

 

 

Freeze

The freeze response occurs when we cannot either fight off or escape the threat. So, we default to a parasympathetic response of freezing.

The original freeze response that happened to our body was protective—it shut down our senses as a way to help us tolerate an intolerable situation. And, now, it continues, whenever we perceive a threat (stress), whether we actually need the protection or not.

 

 

Fawn

The Fawn response occurs when we perceive that the only, or best, option is to befriend, align or accommodate the threat. Like Freeze, this is sometimes identified as a parasympathetic response. Basically, if we can’t fight off or escape a threat, which are active, sympathetic nervous system responses, we default into more passive, parasympathetic responses, simply to help us cope and/or survive.

 

 

If you are looking for ways to identify and cope with long held trauma responses, please consider my Breathwork Process, which combines a cognitive and somatic approach to healing. The Core Story Process, which can be done remotely, also offers a deep look into understanding and unwinding these trauma patterns.

 

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Susan Shehata

Susan Shehata, also known as The Space Guru™, is a Mentor, Guide and Performing Artist, who specializes in helping people release hidden obstacles. She does that through Space Consultations, Holistic Wellness Services and through Music & Theatre. Though her offerings are varied, the goal of her work is the same: to clear the deep patterns of resistance in people's lives. Susan has been a professional performer for twenty years and a certified wellness professional, focusing on transformational healing and space work, for fifteen years. Her life’s mission is to use her voice as a performer, speaker, writer, healer and mentor to assist in global evolution.

2 Comments

  1. Anna Barker on January 9, 2020 at 12:48 am

    Thanks for your sharings and how so many are free; as a retired, fixed-income grandma, I deeply appreciate having access to your insights.

    • Susan Shehata on January 18, 2020 at 1:01 am

      Thank you, Anna! I’m glad you are finding the information helpful!

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